Where do you live in the Netherlands? What is one of your favourite things about it?
My name is Frederico. I live in Rotterdam. I love the unique blend of historical and modern architecture, as well as the open-mindedness of the people who live here.
What’s your job or business?
I am a PhD researcher at Erasmus MC and a theatre teacher.
When was your first time in the Netherlands? What were your first impressions?
My first visit was in 2019 during an Interrail trip. I only visited Amsterdam and had mixed feelings; I loved the architecture and the vibe outside the city centre, but I didn’t enjoy the atmosphere in the more touristic areas.
What is the nicest thing about the Netherlands? How does it compare to your country?
I love how international and open the country generally is. Even though there has been a slight shift toward closure lately, I still find the ‘bubble’ of the bigger cities to be a great environment for expats. By comparison, Italy feels less open, likely due to the language barrier.
Besides the weather, what is your biggest pet peeve?
I really miss uncontaminated nature and the mountains. I miss both the simple views of something not flat and the ability to enjoy mountain sports.
Do you have Dutch friends? How do you meet them?
Yes, I do! I met most of them through work or mutual friends.
What do you like (and dislike) about Dutch people?
I admire their open minds and the easy-going approach to life – Italians could definitely learn from that! In Italy, we often take life too seriously, which can prevent us from taking risks and makes us more judgmental. On the other hand, I feel that social relationships here can be more utilitarian and move faster than the deeper connections I’m used to in Italy, but I guess the compact environment has an influence on this.
What’s your best advice for new expats to make friends?
In cities like Rotterdam and Amsterdam, there are always new people arriving and looking for connections, so apps such as Meetup or following a course about something that you’re passionate about can help so much to meet people you might be compatible with and are open to new friendship.
Do you have a favourite restaurant in your city?
I highly recommend Brasserie Pierre. It’s a French restaurant with amazing food and a really cozy atmosphere.
What do you like to do on the weekends?
If it’s sunny, I try to get outdoors for sports like cycling or sailing. I also enjoy attending events, ranging from music festivals to art exhibitions.
What would you recommend a visitor see in the Netherlands?
The Netherlands has a lot to offer, from the typical architecture of the classical Dutch cities to the modern one of Rotterdam. Moreover, there are a lot of events and some very nice natural spots like Hoge Veluwe National Park.
What is your favourite (and least favourite) Dutch food?
I actually really like stamppot, but I am definitely not a fan of herring
Do you celebrate Dutch holidays?
Sure! It’s a classic answer, but I love King’s Day. I think that the idea that a whole nation celebrates the birthday of the king partying in the street is amazing.
What is the best-kept secret in your city?
There is a beautiful spot near De Maaskantine where is there is an amazing view on the city.
Looking back, what do you wish you knew before you moved?
Honestly, I wish I had been warned about how much I would miss good food! Sorry!
What are a few things you recommend to new expats?
A simple suggestion, but I would really recommend to not focus on the negative side, such as the weather, which of course is easy to blame. Try to make the best of all the activities that are available here and keep in mind that coming here is a choice.
Thanks for the interview Frederico!
Interview held by Rossella Davì.