Interview with an expat

What’s your name and where do you come from? Can you tell us something about your hometown/country?
I am Ritu Gupta from Delhi, the capital of India. I lived in India until me and my family relocated to Netherlands in March 2018. India is a vast and diverse country, known for its history and culture. It is the world’s largest democracy and the fifth-largest economy, a unique blend of ancient heritage and modern advancements.

Where do you live in the Netherlands? What is one of your favourite things about where you live?
I live in Maastricht, in the south of Netherlands, a calm and non-congested town. Coming from a large and densely populated country like India, I truly appreciate the peaceful environment here and enjoy walking around the area.

What’s your job or business?
I am the co-founder of Zensi Workforce Management, an offshore talent start-up, aiming to support European companies with cost-effective and quality hires from India.

When was your first time in the Netherlands? What were your first impressions or what was special about that first trip?
My first time in the Netherlands was in December 2017. I was visiting for a fact-finding session before moving from India. The atmosphere was so different from anything I was used to. It was exciting for me and my family to start a new journey here. It’s been seven years now and we are loving the place. As it was Christmas time when we first came, the vibe was so lively and energetic!

What is the nicest thing about the Netherlands? How does this compare to your country?
I can certainly share about Maastricht: the most remarkable aspect is the stunning countryside, surrounded by lush greenery! The less populated environment enhances its natural beauty. Comparing with India isn’t entirely fair, as India is significantly larger country, approximately 79 times the size of the Netherlands, offering a completely different landscape and cultural experience.

Besides the weather, what is your biggest pet peeve about the Netherlands?
Limited spice in food!! As an Indian, I am accustomed to flavourful food, whereas Dutch food is quite mild in terms of spice and flavour! Even in Indian restaurants, the flavour and spices are toned down to cater local preferences.

Do you have Dutch friends? How do you meet Dutch people?
I have quite a few Dutch friends including my business partner and his wife. I meet them for coffee or dinner. Additionally, I share good connection with my Dutch neighbours.

What do you like about Dutch people? What don’t you like?
I like their deeply ingrained culture of cycling and running; it reflects their commitment to an active, sustainable and health-conscious lifestyle. I also like their transparency and preference for clear, direct communications. No sugarcoating talks, just their honest opinion. They are more open to discussions if there are any sort of disagreements. I wouldn’t say I dislike anything, but differences in perspective when it comes to the structured and highly planned approach even for small casual meet-ups. The ease of making spontaneous plans is missing.

What’s your best advice for new expats to make friends?
First and foremost, learn the language! This is a great way to integrate in the local community and be a part of the society. Making an effort to learn Dutch helps build deeper connections. Another key advice would be networking. Actively engage in local community groups, attend running or cycling events and participate in volunteer activities. It can be a great way to meet new people and expand your circle.

Do you have a favourite restaurant in your city?
Being a vegetarian and coming from India, which is known for its rich spices and flavours, finding restaurants which align with my taste was little challenging. But lately I discovered great options like With Love Burrito, Lezzet Grill and Happy Italy.

What’s your favourite Dutch store?
I enjoy shopping in Holland & Barrett for their great range of organic products. Bijou & Brigitte is another store where I like spending time. They have a beautiful collection of jewellery. I also like visiting small farms nearby Maastricht and Valkenburg for fresh milk and honey.

What do you like to do on the weekends?
I occasionally accompany my son to his badminton tournaments. I also enjoy reading the Bhagavad Gita – a Hindu Scripture that offers guidance on leading your life based on duty, righteousness, devotion and selfless service. I also like going for walks with my husband. If the weather isn’t ideal then usually relax at home, meeting with friends or watching Netflix and Amazon Prime.

Who is your favourite Dutch historical, cultural or famous person?
I have read about Anne frank and Vincent Van Gogh. Anne Frank story’s is inspiring as it teaches the importance of staying calm and positive even in the most difficult situations.

What would you recommend a visitor to do and see in your city and in general in the Netherlands?
There’s a lot to explore in Netherlands in general, from major cities like Amsterdam, Rotterdam and The Hague to beautiful regions like Zeeland, Texel and Giethoorn. In my city, I would recommend Maastricht city centre, on both sides of the river Maas, offering some amazing views! Smaller Limburg towns like Thorn and the countryside near Epen and Valkenburg too are picturesque, with lush greenery and a peaceful atmosphere.

What is your favourite Dutch food? And what Dutch food do you dislike?
My favourite Dutch food is stroopwafel. I enjoy having it especially during winters.
I am not a fan of vlaai, one of the famous Dutch desserts.

Do you celebrate Dutch holidays? Which one is your favourite?
Carnival, for sure. People dressed up in colourful, unique costumes, lively bands, energetic music – truly a vibrant celebration!

What famous Dutch place should new visitors or expat definitely go see?
Giethoorn is a must-see: a no-car village, popularly known as the Venice of Netherlands. Another great destination is Zaanse Schans, with its historical windmills and houses, giving an authentic glimpse of Dutch culture and craftmanship.

Best kept secret in your city?
Helpoort! It’s the oldest city gates in the Netherlands and offers a captivating insight into Maastricht history.

Looking back, what do you wish you knew before you moved to the NL?
I wish I had known the importance of learning Dutch language, especially when staying in the southern Netherlands. In this region, most companies prioritize the Dutch language, so knowing the language can expand your career opportunities.

What are 1-2 things you recommend to new expat here in the NL?
Again, first learn the Dutch language! Secondly, embrace the cycling culture! Netherlands is a bike-friendly nation. Getting comfortable with cycling will make commuting easier (and save some money too😉) and help you enjoy the local way of life!

Thanks for the interview Ritu!
Interview by Rossella Davì